Monday, March 29, 2010

Spring break in Bend






We took a few days in the middle of the week and went over to Bend. My parents came with us...mainly because my dad wanted to golf with Jamie. I'm seriously thinking I need to take up golf just so he can't stick we with the kids every time he want to go play! My mom and I had fun though...I swam in the heated pools with the kids which was fun. With the exception of Jalen continually wanting to switch pools which meant I had to get out and go with him and it wasn't exactly warm outside! It was sunny and mid 60's but felt about 40 degrees when you were all wet. We played put put golf, played at the park and the highlight for the girls was ice skating. Ellie thought she was semi-pro because she had been a few times with a friend. Jamie had to go out in his shoes (he would have been NO help on skates!) and help Lily. The second time we went at the Sunriver resort with some friends Jalen wanted to go. Since he was free Jamie agreed to let him try. Let's start by declaring that he was wearing Lily's sweatshirt...we don't normally dress him in pink...although he would love that, he says its his favorite color! Add some white skates and a helmet to that and you couldn't help but giggle. We were all in tears laughing because Jalen couldn't stand at all and his legs kept slipping out from under him and hitting Jamie in the shins. After the first time around Jamie's shins were all cut up and bleeding. Jalen didn't want to be done so Papa got out there and they each took one hand and went around with him. I shouldn't laugh because I can't skate at all...didn't even want to try but it sure is funny watching other people wobble all around! The last day we woke up to snow and after swimming in the snow we packed up for the car ride home...only three hours but with these kids feels like about 6!

Saturday, March 13, 2010

Snooks save Sweetie




Let me start by clarifying that Ellie titles this post all by herself! You remember Happy...the new dog we got in December? Well after Riley died we decided Happy needed a playmate. It was unbelievable to me that we had 5 acres for him to play on but unless we were outside with him he would sit on the porch and pout. And who wants to be outside in the middle of winter in Oregon?! So back to the shelter we went and came home with a lab pointer mix, super cute white and black, super sweet (hence the name) dog. Yes, we now have two dogs named Happy and Sweetie...we are those people! After nursing Sweetie back to health (giardia and kennel cough both of which she gave to Happy) we had two dogs that already love each other and run around together and play...problem solved! Until they together felt "tough" all of a sudden and thought they ruled the neighborhood. Not just our yard, but the neighbors yards and even the street. Which meant that every walker, biker and kid getting off the bus got chased and barked at...and although they really are friendly dogs they look really mean when they come charging you...especially two of them. So now we were the neighbors that nobody liked...they wouldn't go out to get their mail, the parents had to drive the kids to the bus stop because they were so scared...you get the point. So as if the dogs hadn't cost us enough money in vet bills...they were now costing us even more by forcing us to find a way to "contain" them. Keep in mind where we live...everyone has at least five acres, no one's yard is fenced, all the neighbor dogs roam free and always have and ours have to go and ruin that streak. We called up invisible fence and two days later they had dug the trench around the entire 5 acres and the dogs had on their pretty shock collars. It has been a success...it only took Happy one time getting shocked and he won't go within 20 feet of it and all it took for Sweetie was a beep and she backed away...she's our fearful one...the silent assassin. We have no idea what happened to her in her past, and although she is so loving and cuddly, she has some issues with her hips and back end which cause her to be a little "snippy" at times. We found out the hard way when Jalen was laying on top of her and giving her loves (Jalen style which means pinching and squeezing with much intensity) and somehow managed to hurt her which led to a yelp and a quick turn of her head landing a tooth right on the edge of his lip. It made me feel a little better that it wasn't a full bite...there was only one tooth laceration, but still I had that protective mommy moment where I wanted to immediately get rid of her. The girls are crying (I'm still not sure if it was because Jalen got bit or they thought they had to give Sweetie back!) so I told them I would wait to make any major decisions. A trip to the emergency room, 30 minutes of screaming at the top of his lungs, being mummy wrapped and strapped to the bed and 4 stitches later he was fixed. I thought ok well at least he will learn his lesson and be nice to the dogs now but no such luck. The first thing he did when we got home is go right back at her...no fear in that boy! Yes, we still have Sweetie...everyone I've talked to from trainers to friends have said that all I have to do is teach Jalen how to treat the dogs. Haha...easier said than done but we are working on it...my solution is to keep them separated for the most part. I figure this stage will pass and one day they can be best buds running in the field...but for now the squeezing of the cheeks kind of affection needs to be given to humans!